회화와 문법을 동시에 공부하는 Everyday English VOA 매일 영어 진행에 이은경입니다. 오늘은 누군가에게 죄책감을 들게 만들다. 누군가에게 죄책감을 심어주다. Guilt trip을 사용해 대화 만들어 보겠습니다.

J: I couldn't help but notice that you didn't come to my birthday party last weekend.

A: I'm really sorry about that.

J: It would have meant a lot to me if you had made an effort to be there.

A: I know, and I feel terrible about it. I wanted to be there, but I just couldn't make it happen.

J: You know, I had friends who traveled from out of town to be at the party, and they made it work. It hurts that you didn't. It's not like I have birthdays every day, you know.

A: I get it, and I'm not trying to make excuses. But I feel like you are laying a guilt trip on me.

J: I didn't mean to lay a guilt trip on you. I was just disappointed that you couldn't make it. I'm sorry for making you feel guilty.

누군가에게 죄책감을 느끼게 만들다.

Lay a guilt trip on someone

Put a guilt trip on someone

Give someone a guilt trip

Guilt trip은 죄를 느끼는 여행, 그러니까 내가 스스로 느끼는 죄의식이 아니라 어떤 사람이 내가 죄의식을 갖게 만드는 것을 뜻합니다.

I felt like you laid a guilt trip on me.

나는 당신이 내가 죄의식을 갖게 만든 것으로 느꼈어요.

I didn't mean to lay a guilt trip on you.

나는 당신이 죄책감을 갖게할 의도가 없었습니다.

내가 죄책감갖게 하지 마세요.

Don’t lay a guilt trip on me.

당신의 아이에게 성적 가지고 죄책감갖게 하지 마세요.

Don’t lay a guilt trip on your child about grades.

내가 당신의 생일 파티에 참석하지 않았다고 죄책감 느끼게 하지 마세요.

Don’t lay a guilt trip on me because I didn’t go to your birthday party.

누군가에게 죄책감을 느끼게 만들다.

Lay a guilt trip on someone

Put a guilt trip on someone

Give someone a guilt trip

표현 기억하시면서 오늘의 대화 느린 속도로 한 번 더 들어보겠습니다.

J: I couldn't help but notice that you didn't come to my birthday party last weekend.

A: I'm really sorry about that.

J: It would have meant a lot to me if you had made an effort to be there.

A: I know, and I feel terrible about it. I wanted to be there, but I just couldn't make it happen.

J: You know, I had friends who traveled from out of town to be at the party, and they made it work. It hurts that you didn't. It's not like I have birthdays every day, you know.

A: I get it, and I'm not trying to make excuses. But I feel like you are laying a guilt trip on me.

J: I didn't mean to lay a guilt trip on you. I was just hurt and disappointed that you couldn't make it. I'm sorry for making you feel guilty.

대화 해석해 보겠습니다.

I couldn't help but notice that you didn't come to my birthday party last weekend.

지난 주말에 당신이 내 생일 파티에 오지 않은 것을 주목하지 않을 수 가 없었어요.

Cannot help but –하지 않을 수 없다. –할 수 밖에 없다

It would have meant a lot to me if you had made an effort to be there.

It would have meant a lot to me

It means a lot. 나에게 의미가 크다. 내게 정말 의미있는 일이다.

if you had made an effort to be there

만약 거기에 당신이 와주었었다면

It hurts that you didn't.

당신이 안와서 상처받았어요.

It's not like I have birthdays every day, you know.

내 생일이 매일 있는 것도 아니잖아요.

It’s not like –한 것도 아니다.

It’s not like I didn’t want to attend your party.

내가 당신 파티에 가고 싶어하지 않은 것도 아니잖아요.

It's not like I have birthdays every day, you know.

내 생일이 매일 있는 것도 아니잖아요.

I get it, and I'm not trying to make excuses. But I feel like you are laying a guilt trip on me.

I get it.

알아요.

I'm not trying to make excuses.

변명하려는 것이 아닙니다.

I felt like you laid a guilt trip on me.

당신이 내가 죄책감을 느끼게 만드는 것으로 느꼈어요.

I feel like you are trying to lay a guilt trip on me.

나는 당신이 내가 죄책감을 느끼도록 노력하는 것 같아요.

I didn't mean to lay a guilt trip on you.

나는 당신이 죄책감을 느끼게 하려는 의도가 아니였어요.

I’m not trying to lay a guilt trip on you.

나는 당신이 죄책감을 느끼게 하려고 노력하는 것이 아닙니다.

I'm sorry for making you feel guilty.

당신이 죄책감을 느끼게 만들어 죄송합니다.

Everyday English VOA 매일 영어 오늘은

Lay a guilt trip on someone

Put a guilt trip on someone

Give someone a guilt trip

누군가에게 죄책감을 느끼게 만들다. Guilt trip에 관해 공부했습니다.