For Children Who Lost a Parent, the Pandemic Pain Will Never End
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Aidan Garza, 12, poses for a portrait at home in Converse, Texas, Feb. 27, 2022.
Aidan Garza often talks about his dad in the present tense, as if David Garza were still right across the living room, sitting in his favorite chair, calling the 12-year-old over to watch a Star Wars series.
As if he had never collapsed while out running errands on Dec. 30, 2020, in Converse, Texas.
As if he had never died of COVID, one of the now 1 million Americans to succumb to the pandemic.
"He's such a warm guy," says Aidan. "Every time I would hug him, I feel like I'm touching a cloud."
Aidan Garza often talks about his dad in the present tense, as if David Garza were still right across the living room, sitting in his favorite chair, calling the 12-year-old over to watch a Star Wars series.
As if he had never collapsed while out running errands on Dec. 30, 2020, in Converse, Texas.
As if he had never died of COVID, one of the now 1 million Americans to succumb to the pandemic.
"He's such a warm guy," says Aidan. "Every time I would hug him, I feel like I'm touching a cloud."
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Aidan Garza, 12, (L) Julius Garza, 14, (R) and Margaret Garza (C) pray together next to their father’s urn, which they call 'the vessel,' in Converse, Texas, March 30, 2022.
No government program at any level is tracking American families such as Aidan and his big brother Julius' in which at least one of a child's primary caregivers has died of COVID, but researchers' estimates put the number at over 181,000.
Deep racial disparities among kids who lost at least one parent or caregiver to COVID reflect the course of a disease that has illuminated inequities in areas such as healthcare in the United States. Native American children, for instance, are four times as likely to have lost a parent to COVID than white kids.
No government program at any level is tracking American families such as Aidan and his big brother Julius' in which at least one of a child's primary caregivers has died of COVID, but researchers' estimates put the number at over 181,000.
Deep racial disparities among kids who lost at least one parent or caregiver to COVID reflect the course of a disease that has illuminated inequities in areas such as healthcare in the United States. Native American children, for instance, are four times as likely to have lost a parent to COVID than white kids.
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Margaret Garza hugs her son Julius Garza, 14, in Converse, Texas, March 22, 2022.
Susan Hillis, the lead author of the first major modeling study to determine the numbers of children who lost a parent or caregiver to COVID, published last October in the journal for the American Academy of Pediatrics, said that it is crucial that hospitals, schools and churches work together to identify families who lost a caregiver so that children can be protected from neglect and other threats.
While many look forward to the end of the pandemic, families such as Aidan and Julius's show its profound and enduring impact.
"Our 'normal' is not going to be like anyone else's, because we lost someone," said Margaret Garza, Aidan and Julius's mother.
Susan Hillis, the lead author of the first major modeling study to determine the numbers of children who lost a parent or caregiver to COVID, published last October in the journal for the American Academy of Pediatrics, said that it is crucial that hospitals, schools and churches work together to identify families who lost a caregiver so that children can be protected from neglect and other threats.
While many look forward to the end of the pandemic, families such as Aidan and Julius's show its profound and enduring impact.
"Our 'normal' is not going to be like anyone else's, because we lost someone," said Margaret Garza, Aidan and Julius's mother.
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Justise McGowan, 13, rests her head on her mother, Dr. Sandra McGowan-Watts, at home in Matteson, Illinois, March 16, 2022.
Sandra McGowan-Watts, whose husband Steven Watts died in May 2020, has been trying to maintain as much of her 13-year-old daughter Justise's routine as possible.
Last summer, when the bushes in her yard needed to be trimmed, Justise found her dad's hedge trimmers and got to work.
"She does the things that he would do," Sandra says.
Sandra McGowan-Watts, whose husband Steven Watts died in May 2020, has been trying to maintain as much of her 13-year-old daughter Justise's routine as possible.
Last summer, when the bushes in her yard needed to be trimmed, Justise found her dad's hedge trimmers and got to work.
"She does the things that he would do," Sandra says.